Confessions of a Cheating Military Wife

Below is a conversation I had on facebook with a woman that cheated on her husband while he was deployed… With a married man who was also in the military. This conversation started only an hour after the previous blog. I asked the questions anyone who has been cheated on would ask, and we get some answers in the situation and a glance at some of the circumstances involved in a military marriage. The conversation was copied directly from facebook, her name and image above her comments have been censored as per her request.
On a side note… ladies, this is why men get mad when you talk to or flirt with other men. This is why men fight when a man is talking to his woman. This is why men think they need to lock you all up, cause they know that there might be someone better that will come along.
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    about an hour ago

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    • Her comment on your article you just posted about military spouses

    • GAG

  • Daniel Nuñez

    about an hour ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • ha ha ha.. I take it you read my article

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    • Yeah it was good… I mean I’m not trying to be bitter bc Im part of that percent so I got what was coming to me… But stupid comments like hers, people have no clue about the military

  • Daniel Nuñez

    about an hour ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • They don’t and I tried to be fair.. I mean if the population ratio was a little more normal less women would cheat

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    about an hour ago

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    • It still depends on the person and the circumstances

  • Daniel Nuñez

    about an hour ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • Still… if there was enough women for the men, they’d be less prone to sleep with someones wife. Circumstance or not. I know some of the guys are control freaks and crazy but a woman should leave not cheat

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    about an hour ago

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    • Yeah your right.. But some people want their cake and eat it too

    • I just think women are natural manipulators

  • Daniel Nuñez

    about an hour ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • they are

    • and everyone has them all pegged for sweet innocent and pure beings… At least with men we’re expected to be dogs, douchebags, pigs, and scum

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    about an hour ago

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    • Hahahha that’s true lol

  • Daniel Nuñez

    about an hour ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • lol

    • I should do an article on that

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    about an hour ago

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    • Just called me … Your inspiration

  • Daniel Nuñez

    about an hour ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • lol… feel free to leave any details… people are always looking for the answers as to why people cheat

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    • Selfishness… Living for the moment… Thinking that’s what they deserve … Finally getting to have fun

  • Daniel Nuñez

    about an hour ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • That’s the first time I ever heard it put like that

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    about an hour ago

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    • I’ll be the first to admit it… My husband kept me locked away for years … I had one drink on my 21st bday never went to a bar or club so when he left I took advantage of it… I could finally have fun the way I wanted to

    • My husband didn’t think that bars were fun.. He was older and experienced it .. I didn’t… That doesn’t mean I jumped on every dick at the bar

  • Daniel Nuñez

    about an hour ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • so you went all girls gone wild

    • partying on bar tops, dancing, flirting

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    • I went to many bars when he was gone I didn’t cheat till 6 months into his deployment …. I was living for the moment… It just turned out that moment was worth it lol

    • Exactly

    • My husband was very controlling .. And I’m very stubborn and head strong… Out of three year marriage (not including dating) I spent maybe a year and some change w him

  • Daniel Nuñez

    about an hour ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • wow… so do you remember the breaking point? The moment of no return…. What was it exactly that went through your head when you committed to cheating?

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    • I’m not saying I wasn’t ready for that bc I knew what I was getting myself into… But our second deployment I pretty much exploded and lived for myself

    • But like I said everyone’s circumstances are different.. Now I wouldn’t dream of cheating on the guy I’m w now … You seriously couldn’t pay me to

  • Daniel Nuñez

    about an hour ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • What do you mean? You cheated the first deployment?

    • lol.. but someone could of paid you to the first time?

    • I’m just kidding with that by the way… you had me laughing cause I read an article earlier about how teenage girls from middle class families are trading sexual favors for purses or money

    • did you run away?

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    • Nah first deployment we were fine lol what do u mean did I run away? Lol

  • Daniel Nuñez

    54 minutes ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • It took like a half hour to get a response lol

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    53 minutes ago

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    • Haha sorry I’m here I’m on my phone so it doesn’t pop up right away

  • Daniel Nuñez

    52 minutes ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • ahhh… so do you mind if I straight up copy what we are talking about… I’ll censor your name of course

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    52 minutes ago

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    • Where do u live in jvegas?

    • I’m not a stalker.. I just hate where I live lol

  • Daniel Nuñez

    51 minutes ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • I live by the Marine fed on Gum Branch

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    48 minutes ago

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    • Oh… I’ve lived in so many places in Jville… I moved again, on the other side of the world..

    • In ————-.. It sucks there goes my bars

  • Daniel Nuñez

    45 minutes ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • lol.. Happy Hour isn’t too far from there. You say you exploded during his second deployment… by going out a lot? How many guys did you cheat with?

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    30 minutes ago

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    • Yeah like finally get to live the way I wanted… I only had sex w one guy and I’m engaged to him right now

  • Daniel Nuñez

    28 minutes ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • That’s actually pretty uncommon, usually a cheater has multiple partners and doesn’t continue a relationship with who they cheated with after the breakup

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    26 minutes ago

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    • Yeah idk like I said it’s different for every occasion… I was brought up religious and my husband was religious so I was scared I guess

    • I guess I’m not a huge whore but what I didn’t wasn’t right by any means

  • Daniel Nuñez

    22 minutes ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • So what was the prelude to cheating? Did your current come on to you? or did seduce him?.. did you know him prior to cheating or was it spur of the moment? How did it start, and what exactly was going through your mind?

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    • I’m still married and so is my fiancé lol

    • My situation is kinda fucked up

  • Daniel Nuñez

    21 minutes ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • I think those are the biggest questions people have… and wow… now you opened up a whole other can of worms

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    21 minutes ago

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    • Hahaha whyyyy

  • Daniel Nuñez

    20 minutes ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • well lets start with the last set of questions… and go from there… I think cause you’re on the phone you miss questions sometimes

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    19 minutes ago

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    • Uhm… I met him at the bar.. I was wearing my rings… I told him straight up I was married… We met at the bar the next night… Hung out the next day… Next day he made me dinner… I think we had sex on like the 6th day .. It was like normal dating but he knew I was married

  • Daniel Nuñez

    18 minutes ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • And you knew he was married?

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    • We told each other it was just gonna be a fling bc he was deploying the month my husband got back so we wouldn’t fall for each other… Then he got into his bike accident and almost died that changed a lot of things

    • Eventually I stopped wearing my rings when we would hang out

    • Then we started falling for each other… Bc of his accident he couldn’t deploy so we stayed together

    • The first night my husband was home ( I’m not trying to sound typical or pitty myself) my husband took all my credit cards bank cards… He got drunk and lost his military ID and took it out on me.. That’s when I left

    • Sorry I’m getting all your messages late… He told me like the second or third time we hung out… He was married but they were divorcing ((which they are))

    • She doesnt even live in the country anymore

  • Daniel Nuñez

    6 minutes ago

    Daniel Nuñez

    • alright… So I take it your husband was a bit of a mess?

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    • Lol typical marine Corp hard ass

      • Daniel Nuñez

        about an hour ago

        Daniel Nuñez

        • lol… alright I think any question that anyone could have about this is answered… do you mind if I just copy this and post it to the site? I’d remove your name if you want me to.

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        • Oh geez lol Uhm

        • Fuck it.. Tell me when u do it…I wanna see ppls opinions

      • Daniel Nuñez

        20 minutes ago

        Daniel Nuñez

        • lol… alright so you do want your name taken off

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        • Yeah please

      • Daniel Nuñez

        a few seconds ago

        Daniel Nuñez

      • lol, OK… give me a few to edit it out and I’ll have it posted

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